Acts 2:42-47
What does the word fellowship suggest to you? A cup of tea, gossip in the vestibule, sports event, a trip; pilgrimage to Israel, etc. All that these mean is that we’ve partaken in some sort of Christian activity.
The fact that we share social activities with other Christians does not of itself imply that we have fellowship with them. They can be apart of them, but not the whole essence of what Christian fellowship means. It is a dangerous thing to think that mere activities are it for Christian fellowship. This self-deception fools us into thinking that we are thriving on fellowship when all the time our souls may be starving for lack of it. It is not a good sign when a Christian can’t distinguish between the time that is spent with sinners and that which is spent with believers.
Fellowship is one of the great words of the NT – it denotes something that is essential to the Christian’s spiritual health and central to the church’s true life.
In Acts 2 we catch a glimpse of how powerful Christian fellowship can be and the difference that it can make. Indeed it is the centre of the greatness of the early church (If we are weak as a modern church, because we lack the great spirit of fellowship).
Definition of Fellowship:
It means to “share the common life.” It involves participating together in sharing of each other’s lives. It is a two-way street. At least two parties are needed to “share the common life.”
Dimensions of Fellowship:
We have fellowship with God (if we are a believer). 1 John 1:3 says, “That which we have seen and heard declare we unto you, that ye also may have fellowship with us: and truly our fellowship is with the Father, and with his Son Jesus Christ.” We also are called to have fellowship on the horizontal plane – with each other. Remember fellowship with God is the source of fellowship with man. If we are not “sharing the common life” or if we are at odds with another brother or sister in Christ it is a sign that we are not doing well in our relationship with God.
When the Hebrew Christians floundered the author of the Letter to the Hebrews wrote and said: “Let us consider how to stir up one another… not neglecting the assembling of ourselves together, as is the habit of some, but encouraging one another.” A Christian is never stronger than when he/she is in fellowship (common life) with another believer. Remember… Christian fellowship is not an end in itself. Fellowship between Christians is for the sake of the fellowship with God.
When does fellowship become a reality?
When two or more Christians desiring to help each other to know God better do in fact share with each other such knowledge of God as they possess. It can be achieved through preaching, praying together, Bible study, talking with Christian friends, it can even be found in the husband-wife relationship. (Matthew 18:20)
- Self-sufficiency – there can be no fellowship where we do not depend upon each other (this is what is expected of the unsaved). John Wesley said “There is nothing more unchristian than a solitary Christian.”
- Formality – it goes behind the confines of the worship service
- Bitterness – attitudes of hostility (Heb. 12:15) – often due to wounded pride; anger; a sense of injustice; ill-treatment; betrayal; jealousy è true fellowship calls for us to make the other person great for God.
- Elitism – “I’m better than you are” attitude
Remember…
Christians today need fellowship
Christians today lack fellowship
Christians today must seek fellowship.
“I’m so glad I’m apart of the family of God!”